I wonder if it would be productive for us to come up with a simple and concise guide to posting to the forums and ask Kim to post it at the top of the main page, or anywhere alse appropriate.
I suggest it covers:
Politeness, including personal attacks and choice of language/font.
Posting messages once only and in the most relevant place
Respecting the very varied community we have here and harpists different aims, resources and locations.