Just wanted to ask this of everyone. I’m sure it has happened to all of us at one point or another.
Situation: A friend is getting married and she asks you if you’d like to play the harp at her wedding. She’s not an extremely close friend and you strongly suspect that the only reason you are invited is because you play the harp. What do you do? And what conditions affect your decision (e.g. the wedding is an eight-hour drive away or more)?