Amanda,

Unless it is a string tied around your finger, you are taking a risk playing with jewelry on.

I agree with Kay. Unless the ring is made of rubber, you run the risk of it scratching the finish, even if it’s completely flat with rounded corners.

My husband worked with the jeweler to design a ring with a stone that was wide, but very shallow.

My husband designed my wedding ring with the help of a jeweler just as Sarah’s husband did – the back of the ring

Other than it being beautiful, simple and classic, it can serve as your wedding ring also and you won’t need to wear two (which so many women do not do……they end up putting the expensive diamond in a jewelry box and just wearing their wedding band after a few years.

Also, I heard of a woman whose future betrothed gave her the choice between a new harp or a diamond ring for their engagement…….guess which one she chose!

Dear Amanda,

I suggest wearing the ring on your finger, and not on your right wrist, right shoulder, waist, belly button, thigh and breasts. That should prevent any contact between your ring and the wooden surface of the harp.

Congratulations, btw