Re: “Mean Girls?”

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unknown-user on #111326

Ironic as it may sound, it may help to be able to not take experiencing mean behavior to heart. The person doing it may be merely acting superficially, or trivially, or in a way they feel entitled to so do by virtue of circumstance or precedent, and it most likely may have nothing at all to do with the recipient, it’s a self-reflective behavior, as I think you are identifying. Everyone is a work in progress, some may be progressing more than others, others just differently, perhaps not at all, all we can do is be the best we can be if we choose to. Even if that is the 50th percentile.